Seasons come and go in our lives. It is the one thing that will always be a consistent factor even though it is one of the hardest things we adapt to comfortably. The way we embrace and manage change will affect our outcome in many situations. The upcoming season can be a time of tremendous growth if we allow it to take its course even when the changes between each season are bittersweet. The start of each season brings hope and excitement for the future, yet with a twinge of regret or longing for what has passed. I am not sure about you but I love this time of year most and am beyond ready for all things fall- cooler weather, time change, sweatshirts, watching the trees change color, chi lattes and flavored creamers, holidays, and of course football. With this change of season, so comes change in life!
If we take a deep look at our lives and our surroundings during this season of change we will find that change is everywhere for everyone. Personally, I am currently in a huge season of change. My studies at UAB are going well, but classes are extremely different from what I am accustom to which requires me to contribute a lot more time and effort to school work. Married life is also different from that of single life because I no longer have to worry about myself but my Husband, as well. Also, I was recently approached about a job position that I did not apply for, however I so desperately am in need of the experience. I can only assume that the Lord's hand was dominate in this particular situation. It took me forever to gain the courage and will power to make the call back to the employer simply because I had not sought the position, the position found me. In the midst of confusion and chaos I was extremely fearful and doubtful that I was the best match for the position. I was also not sure that I could continue to be the best student and wife that I should if I was never home. So, adding a job into my season of change is a scary and intimidating thought. I have such joy in my heart for the possible opportunity and I am so thankful that the Lord knows best even when I am in doubt or confused. It has taken me almost a week to feel comfortable and content with the decision I made to call the employer back, but I can now rest assured knowing that the Lord's will shall be done, regardless of having a job or not in my near future.
Using nature’s seasons is a metaphor for approaching change. Keep in mind as each season presents itself we will face many obstacles that will result in opposition or opportunity to help us evolve and grow. Some changes will be easier to manage than others. Whereas some shifts in life may require a time of replenishing and reflection depending upon the situation. Perhaps you must acquire new skills that you did not realize you needed for a particular job position or class in school. Some of you reading today may be personally ill or recently affected by a death of a family member or friend. Regardless of the situation, sometimes change is not easily embraced and can be a very difficult transition depending upon the situation. When an event occurs and change is inevitable, we are forced out of our comfort zone and must adapt or learn new coping skills. However, it is human to default to established behaviors or habits because they are comfortable and familiar. Know that you can choose to move quickly or slowly through this process of change. Ultimately, it is your choice.
I think one of the hardest things we seem to have to do as humans is embrace change because it is ever present in our world. We are stubborn, headstrong and for the most part set in our ways. We are creatures of habit and sometimes not very open to change once we have our minds set on something. Ecclesiastes 3 says, "There is a season and time for everything..." I have come to the conclusion that I can either grow or get left behind and scoff at those I see moving ahead regardless of the type of change present and what it represents in my life in this very moment. I am in the slow process of change, which I believe will be continual in the years to come if I truly continue down the path of following my professional dreams. I do know that I do not want to regret anything and I want to successfully fulfill my potential in all endeavors sought. There are four months left in this year and I am going to accept change despite the challenge or fear that is associated along with it. Dear friends, you can embrace change now to set yourself up for a great 2013, too! Pray about it, plan ahead, write it down, and go after it! The season of change is here and waiting for us to respond! Make the choice today to make a difference in your life or in the life of another. Happy Sunday to you and until next time, happy blogging!
I did the whole birthday cake hoopla last night with him because I wanted to make it special without us being rushed today. Happy Birthday, Tony Harper! I love you and am so thankful you are my Husband! You are the best of the best and I cannot wait to share year 24 with you as your Bride :)
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